• Can you name the five wealthiest people in the world?
• Can you name the last decade’s World Series winners?
• Can you name the last five winners of the Miss America contest?
• Can you name 10 people who have won the Nobel or Pulitzer Prize?
• Can you name the last half-dozen Academy Award winners for best actor?

These are the questions that greeted me this morning, atop a box of chocolate-covered dried fruits sent to me by marketing consultant and best-selling book author Frank Sonnenberg.

I've never studied this academically, nor taken any formal polls, but all of the women I talk to agree on when they find their husbands at their absolute sexiest. Any men reading this are probably thinking, "romantic dinner" or "walking hand-in-hand on the beach" or "double-bubble bath in an oversized tub" or fresh flowers or gifts of beautiful jewelry. These are each wonderful, tremendously appreciated and should certainly be encouraged, but they're not "it."